How did it not say it was pregnant? ?

I thought as you. I never had a single positive test. I got a UTI. Got meds for it. Felt better. Then also got put on another med. I ended up being almost 7 months pregnant. Never Crossed my mind. I was careful as heck. My child was stillborn when I was 17. I now have a 9 month old son. This time around when I did not get my period 3 months in a row and still got negatives, I insisted upon a ultrasound. Of course to fine I was already 11 weeks pregnant. About a law suit. You may have some ground, but you should make it clear this will not bring the child back, and will make your grief worse. I would tell him when you are finally ready you can try for another child. I know that I flat out said from my first experience I never wanted to have a child. But I am glad to say since I bugged the heck out of the docs to give me a simple ultrasound, that I now have a healthy happy little boy. Like you they stopped my labor 2 times, then I was induced at 42 weeks, eek. I wish you well, and there is nothing that I can say to take away the pain. Only time will heal that. I wish your family well, and hope that soon you will be able to smile again. :)